I often wonder if its only me who thinks others have compromised. Often I’m asked “how did you manage? That was so tough?” but then I think…” how do you manage with accepting / living with the first thing that came your way? I have realised that both are equally difficult. Always striving and always accepting each have their own punishments and price. I suppose we all choose what we can live with and go with that. So, compromising hardness and easiness is equal struggles. Perhaps in the end do we really end up knowing which would have resulted in the best way.