What is it my business what other people think or say about me? Why is it that I waste so much head space and heart space wondering about other people’s opinion about me is? Did I say the wrong thing? Maybe they thought I meant...xyz? did I sound too harsh? Was I insensitive? Do they think I’m stupid? Maybe they laughing at me?
As much as it is easier said than done, I know that most people are thinking about themselves and are not really thinking about me (at least after 2 seconds), and secondly placing one’s happiness and wellbeing at the mercy of another human being with all their warts and personal issues is self-destructive behaviour. I need to man up and own my feelings. Also learning to perhaps tread softer would also help the journey and make me more mindful.
Mandy, you have given much to think about. I am encouraged that you accompany artworks with your thoughts - as I’ve been wanting to do the same. The artwork with Giving Your Power Away blog is especially moving for me. How can I be notified when you publish blogs? Thanks. Joan